THEY STAY LONG ENOUGH TO EMPTY YOUR SPIRIT, YOUR EFFORT,YOUR HOPE,YOUR RESOURCES, AND WHEN YOU FINALLY CHOOSE TO SAVE YOURSELF THEY CRY LIKE "YOU" RUINED WHAT THEY WERE QUIETLY DESTROYING.
A GRATEFUL WOMAN MULTIPLIES WHAT YOU GIVE. AN UNGRATEFUL WOMAN CONSUMES IT UNTIL THERE'S NOTHING LEFT OF YOU.
LETS BREAK IT DOWN.
- SHE DOESN'T STAY FOR LOVE-SHE STAYS FOR LEVERAGE. SHE STAYS BECAUSE YOUR PRESENCE IS PROFITABLE. BECAUSE YOUR EFFORT IS CONVENIENT. BECAUSE YOUR EMOTIONAL LABOR MAKES HER LIFE EASIER. SHES NOT LOYAL TO YOU SHES LOYAL TO WHAT SHE CAN GET FROM YOU. YOU CALL IT LOVE SHE CALLS IT OPPORTUNITY.
- SHE FORGETS EVERYTHING YOU DO - BUT REMEMBERS EVERYTHING YOU DON'T DO. YOU GIVE YOUR TIME? EXPECTED,YOU SACRIFICE YOUR COMFORT? NORMAL, YOU GO OUT YOUR WAY FOR HER. "BARE MINIMUM" THE MOMENT YOU SLIP? THE MOMENT YOUR TIRED? THE MOMENT YOU FAIL TO MEET HER UNREALISTIC STANDARD? SHE WILL MAGNIFY THAT SINGLE MOMENT AND ERASE EVERYTHING YOU'VE EVER DONE. UNGRATEFULNESS DOESN'T ACKNOWLEDGE EFFORT. IT ONLY COUNTS DEFICIENCIES.
- SHE DRAINS YOU UNTIL YOUR SPIRIT BECOMES THE PROBLEM. YOUR GENEROSITY BECOMES "NOT ENOUGH" YOUR PATIENCE BECOMES "YOU DON'T CARE" YOUR EXHAUSTION BECOMES "YOU'VE CHANGED." SHE PUSHES YOU TO THE EDGE AND THEN CONVINCES YOU THAT YOU WALKED THERE WILLINGLY. UNGRATEFUL WOMAN DON'T DESTROY MEN VIOLENTLY. THEY DO IT GRADUALLY. NOT IN EXPLOSIONS-BUT IN EROSION.
A MAN DOESN'T BECOME OVERNIGHT. HE BECOMES COLD FROM YEARS OF BEING UNAPPRECIATED. CHOSE A WOMAN WHO VALUES EFFORT. NOT ONE WHO CONSUMES IT. CHOOSE A WOMAN WHO FILLS YOU,NOT ONE WHO EMPTIES YOU. BECAUSE GRATITUDE BUILDS LOVE. UNGRATEFULNESS DESTROYS IT AND BLAMES THE ASHES ON YOU.