TRUE FEELINGS

The heart shift
I wasn't prepared for you.  But you came in, flipped my world in the best way, and made me wonder how I ever did life without you. You showed up, made me feel great, made things make sense, and reminded me what its feels like to be genuinely cared for. Thank you for being the surprise that turned into something real, something lasting, something that finally feels like home.   Read more...
The Husband Era Seems To Be Over
The husband era is over... we outside now" That's the new anthem echoing through today's dating world-men choosing freedom, fun, and independence over responsibility, commitment, and stability. But underneath the jokes and nightlife lies a very easy shift.  There was a time when men were raised to lead, protect, and build a family. Now? Many are raised to protect themselves first.... because the cost of choosing wrong is to high.  Here's the truth women are facing today:  Some men are no longer groomed to be husbands, they're groomed to chase... Read more...
No Past
A woman without a broken past  loves differently, respects differently, submits differently, follows differently.  Because you're the first man to shape her world.  Read more...
The worst prison
The worst prison in the world is a home without peace. Be careful who you marry or fall in love with. A beautiful house means nothing if the energy inside drains your soul. Peace is not a luxury. Peace is survival. The person you choose becomes the architect of that peace or the destroyer of it.  A relationship should feel like:  Safety. Softness Being Understood Not walking on egg shells.    Pay attention to the early signs:  Constant criticism  mood swings invalidation  lack of respect emotional manipulation These behaviors only... Read more...
A MAN WITH A PLAN
 A MAN WITH A PLAN NEEDS A WOMAN WHO UNDERSTAND ITS A PROCESS. BECAUSE EVERYONE WANTS A MAN WITH A VISION. BUT MOST DON'T HAVE THE PATIENCE THAT COMES WITH IT. BECAUSE WHEN HES BUILDING, ITS NOT ALWAYS PRETTY. ITS GOING TO BE LATE NIGHTS, QUITE SEASONS AND TIMES WHERE IT LOOKS LIKE NOTHING IS WORKING. BUT THATS WHEN HE NEEDS PEACE THE MOST. IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE PROCESS, YOU DON'T DESERVE THE PROMISE. YOU CAN NOT PRAY FOR A MAN WITH A PURPOSE AND THEN COMPLAIN WHEN HES... Read more...
AN UNGRATEFUL MAN
An ungrateful man is someone who receives help, kindness, or opportunities yet acts as though none of it matters. He often takes the efforts of others for granted, expecting support as if it were owed to him rather than recognizing it as a gift. Instead of expressing appreciation, he may dismiss or minimize what others do, focusing only on what he didn’t get or what went wrong. He might speak as though he has achieved everything alone, ignoring the people who stood behind him. When something goes well, he claims... Read more...
REVELATION 3:7
WHEN GOD GIVES YOU A NEW BEGINNING, IT STARTS WITH AN ENDING. BE THANKFUL FOR CLOSED DOORS, THEY OFTEN GUIDE US TO THE RIGHT ONE."  Read more...
THE UNGRATEFUL WOMAN
THEY STAY LONG ENOUGH TO EMPTY YOUR SPIRIT, YOUR EFFORT,YOUR HOPE,YOUR RESOURCES, AND WHEN YOU FINALLY CHOOSE TO SAVE YOURSELF THEY CRY LIKE "YOU" RUINED WHAT THEY WERE QUIETLY DESTROYING.  A GRATEFUL WOMAN MULTIPLIES WHAT YOU GIVE. AN UNGRATEFUL WOMAN CONSUMES IT UNTIL THERE'S NOTHING LEFT OF YOU.    LETS BREAK IT DOWN.    SHE DOESN'T STAY FOR LOVE-SHE STAYS FOR LEVERAGE. SHE STAYS BECAUSE YOUR PRESENCE IS PROFITABLE. BECAUSE YOUR EFFORT IS CONVENIENT. BECAUSE YOUR EMOTIONAL LABOR MAKES HER LIFE EASIER. SHES NOT LOYAL TO YOU SHES LOYAL TO... Read more...
COUPLES
COUPLES WHO GROW TOGETHER, PRAY TOGETHER, STAY TOGETHER. IT'S THE LITTLE THINGS-LAUGHING, SUPPORTING, AND CHOOSING EACH OTHER EVERY DAY-THAT MAKES LOVE LAST, WITH THE RIGHT PERSON, EVERY ORDINARY MOMENTS FEEL EXTRAORDINARY.  Read more...
GET YOU A WOMAN
GET YOU A WOMAN!! WHEN LIFE GETS OVERWELMING, DOES SHE SPEAK LIFE INTO YOU. IF YOU'RE SAVING YOUR MONEY TO GET TO THE NEXT LEVEL IN BUSINESS DOES SHE STEP IN ON THE BILLS... WHEN YOUR MENTAL LOAD IS HEAVY, DOES SHE PROVIDE A SAFE PLACE TO VENT.... OR DOES SHE REMIND YOU OF ALL THE NEGATIVE THINGS OF THE PAST. YOU NEED SOMEONE ON YOUR TEAM WHO WILL HELP YOU ELEVATE TO A DIFFERENT LEVEL THAN YOU ARE CURRENTLY IN. REAL LIFE. SHE WON'T BE PERFECT BUT SHE WILL... Read more...
FOCUS
FOCUS ON YOURSELF, YOUR GOALS, YOUR REAL FAMILY AND FRIENDS... EVERYTHING ELSE IS A DISTRACTION.  Read more...
REBUILD
A MAN WHO HAD TO REBUILD HIS PEACE PROTECTS IT LIKE HIS LIFE DEPENDS ON IT  Read more...